A woman wants to Liked, Loved & Longed after. I believe these “L’s” stand in order. You could give a woman the
2nd “L”, but without the first “L”, is it the depth of love that she deserves till death do you part? Would you be seeing her as her heavenly father and husband does with all her greatness?
A woman wants to be Liked for all her uniqueness--the things that make her, her. The way she communicates, what she talks about, the giftings she possesses, her personaility, her essence. She wants to be loved for her depth, thoughts, desires and character—what she’s about. The more you Like her, the more she feels free to be even more “her”…to let God’s goodness come out of her even further.
A woman wants to be Loved…when your heart is excited about her and good and devoted. She wants you to be
1 Corinthians chapter 13 to her with the consistent actions of love, the manifestation of God’s love. She wants to see that you will sacrifice for her in whatever ways that comes about.
A woman wants to be Longed for. She wants to know that you only have eyes for her. (Keep those eyes in holiness though until you are married to her.) She wants to KNOW that she’s got your physical interest. You’re delighted about her outer beauty, which is in the eyes of her maker and her beholder, you. Every woman wants to be endeared as a captivating princess.
These are the foundations I beleive a wise woman wants in a relationship leading to marriage. And she wants to be able to reciprocate to the man the same.
Wisdom & encouragement to share with others!
Denise Flynn writes about Singleness, Relationships, Goal Obtainment & the Christian walk. Order